What we really need...

HC OB#6
In today’s class, Prof. Udani ask us to play a “game”. With fair-sounding music, Udani let each of us to say a word, which is what we really need from our classmates and teachers. He told us that it is the last time for us to ask for help from our friends before we go abroad. I know it sounds quite incredible for most of us. Nevertheless, it is a good opportunity for us to show our expectations for our classmates and what ability we would like to improve by ourselves. Actually, it is very hard for me to say what I need to my friends immediately. However, I thought up some of what I really need after thinking for several minutes.
What I really need is the love and encouragement from my friends and fellows. Imagine that when I was in difficulties and there is no way for me to give up. For instance, I encountered some obstacles when I was organizing some activities and probably I did not manage to carry on. There was someone of my friends that give me a hand and encourage me. They help me to find the ways and cheer me up. They let me know that there were still someone waiting there to accompany me. At that time, I would feel so warm and encouraging. I would have the intention to move on, because it is not my own activity. It carried my friends’ hopes. Thus, there was no reason for me to fail and then I can reach our common goal.
Apart from me, all of my classmates tell what they really need from others, from professors and classmates. Some wanna get more opportunities to enhance their leadership and other skills, such as presentation skills, communication skills and skills of coordinating the team. Some guys are quite similar with my perspective. They focus more on emotional force to help them. They want more encouragement and support from their classmates. In my opinion, the same vision and same passion are the most important thing for a group of my if they are going to plan for something.
In addition, Cathy talked about time. I think it is a good issue and I agree Udani’s idea. Yes, that’s right. Nowadays, as the more courses staff and extra-curriculum staff that we have, the less spare we may have and it becomes very hard for us to make a perfect time schedule. However, we can not save the time because the time is flying away every second. What we could do is to plan better to use every minute that we could use. Otherwise, we may find that no matter how hard we tried our best, we would not reach the goal that we plan to achieve.
Thus, thanks for Cathy and her good help. It remind me of saving…no, to plan my daily time more effective and reasonable and also thanks for Prof.Udani to let us have this opportunity to say what we really need and what we really expect our friends.